Energy request - Court case for Ryan on Thursday

[Still Kate]

Dear All,
           The dates crept up pretty fast!  The 21st is the court date that Ryans father has instigated because Ryan doesn't want to see him anymore. Hopefully, things should chugg along reasonably in our favour as Ryans age and his decisions will be taken into account. Ryan has also written a very good letter to the Judge as he has exams on that day and doesn't want to be in court anyway. So could I please have a little energy sent if you would, I'd very much appreciate it.

I'm feeling better in myself about it all, I spent some time meditating last night and I've been doing some Feng Shui at home, the house feels quite calm. Here to Thursday and getting it all over and done with so Ryan can move on.
Thank you everyone,
Blessings
Kate. xx

[RedRonin]

You got it.

Best wishes to both you and Ryan.

[Labrys]

Good luck on the 21st....a good day for court I hope!  Thursday - Thor's Day; and my son assures me that Thor has always cared deeply about justice issues AND families.

[Still Kate]

Thank you both.

I did get some good news from my solicitor last night, apparently Ryans father's solicitor has filled in the wrong legal form and he can't apply for Parental Responsibility. The form his solicitor has filled in is for an application for contact only. So if we need to argue the point then we can on this technicality.
However, he can re-apply and ask for another court hearing and the process will start all over again! This we want to avoid so Ryan has added to his letter to the Judge saying that he doesn't want his father to have any parental responsibility.
Today, I should get the report from the court child officer who interviewed Ryan before Christmas. The officer seems a bit lapsy-daisy and lazy hence I'm only getting it 2 days before the court date but I need to be nice to this guy and keep him on my side as he will be called into court too.

I don't know if the Judge will make a payment order against his father, as he hasn't paid any maintenance for so long I can't remember but first of all, his father will remain out of work so he doesn't have to pay anything, and secondly, if the Judge makes this order then it still leaves a line of contact between his father and me. Personally, I'd rather not have this and carry on doing the best I can for Ryan on my own but I'd also like Ryan to have some extra money for college. So this I need to have a think about.

The aim for Thursday is to put all this to rest so Ryan has no worries or upsets, but his father wont think like that and so I'm getting prepared for the trouble that will start after the court case. I know how his father thinks and his behaviour is concerning. He will come after us both.
The police are aware that there could be problems and we have an arrest order in place and I will ask my solicitor to put something in writting for the court.

Anyway, I'll let you all know how it goes on Thursday. Thank you again.
Blessings
Kate. xx

[Lark]

Kate,

I'll have you and Ryan both in my thoughts and prayers this Thursday.  I can't understand how a parent can be so set on ruining his son's life just to get back at his ex.  It's sickening.

May the Lord and Lady be at your side.

-Lark-

[Still Kate]

Thank you Lark.

I can't wait to get tomorrow over and done with!

Blessings
Kate. xx