Update with request for energy by Kate

[Still Kate]

Hi Everyone,
Me and Ryan saw the solicitor today and his Dad wont be allowed to see him, it wont even go to court.

Unfortunately the silent and threatening phone calls started last night so he is doing the psychological warfare thing that he did 14 years ago .... I know his pattern. Anyway, if it continues then the police have offered to treat him to a night in the cells at a police station a long way from his home so when he is released in the morning he'll have a long expensive trip after a cold uncomfortable night.

At least everyone is on the case and helping us.

Ryan also saw the social worker today and she is happy that he is a polite, inteligent, well adjusted young man. And she's offered to write a report for the legal side of it for me if need be.

Here's to a peaceful life, I hope.
Thank you everyone.... your thoughts and energy always help.
Blessings
Kate and Ryan. xxxxx

[Labrys]

Some good news, yay!

[Lark]

That is good news.

Are you keeping a log of the phone calls?  Time of day, what is said, etc.  That can be useful in bringing charges.  Also, have you thought about getting an answering machine to screen your calls?  If he leaves messages and threats you can use that against him.  And you don't always have to cringe when you pick up the phone thinking it's going to be him.

-Lark-

[Still Kate]

Hi Lark,
         I'm logging the calls. Unfortunately when we split up 14 years ago he called me over 3000 times so I'm used to the pattern and what he does. At least he hasn't wrecked my car yet (touch wood!)which was his favourite thing last time.

Ryans so much happier, his grades have even improved at school and we have no "Monday" incidents from having late nights in the bar with his Dad at the weekends. He's like a different young man.
We enrolled him at college last week to start in 2010 and he's focused on that.

My number 1 concern is that he is happy and not under stress, as for his father..... well I can deal with him.
Blessings and have a good week.
Kate. xx

[RedRonin]

This is great news overall.

Hopefully the constabulary will convince dear old dad that his behavior will have less-than-he-had-hoped results.

We'll be pulling for you!

[Shadow]

Sounds like you have the situation well in hand. Hang in there, we're all pulling for you.