canceled a spell...

[Emerald Victorianna Rose]

I was gonna do a spell today, but I decided to cancel it because both my husband and i are feeling really sick to our stomachs for some reason.  It was to confuse an enemy...well not really an enemy just someone who is bothering me... so hopefully i will get another chance to do the spell, before its too late as far as that goes...  do you think I should have just done the spell, or was I right in waiting until I felt healthier?

[Gryphon]

I donno, I haven't seen the spell (nor do I want to) but have you considered that being sick to your stomachs may have been a sign that you were on the wrong track with the spell and that you shouldn't be casting it in the first (or second) place?

Confusing an enemy sounds an awful lot like you are heading into controlling another's free will, something we suggest you not do. Find another way to address the issues with this person.

[NachtSorcier]

Although I don't try to tell people what they can and cannot do with their spellwork, I do believe that it's smart to follow signs that are presented to you, so I agree that your stomach troubles were probably indicating that the spell should be put off, or, you should find an alternative.

[Anonymous]

Why would you want to confuse someone rather than working out the situation with them? If they're really bothering you, wouldn't it be better to just avoid them?

[Emerald Victorianna Rose]

it was not to mess with their free will, but rather send them on a different course besides messing with me...and talking it out wont do nothing with them...  but i did cancel it, i feel better today, so thats good